If I Could Only Be Like Her

This is a wonderful post I just discovered this evening:

We all know her. She is the woman who has it all together. She has the love of 1 Corinthians 13 down pat and she never falters. She always smiles at her husband and is his constant encouragement. She is gentle and kind and practices unwavering patience with her children.

And when difficult times come? She never doubts or even dares to question the Lord. Her faith stays strong and steady. We can almost bet on it that her home is orderly and constantly peaceful. She never reaches her limit.

And her children!! So polite and helpful are the older ones, and the little ones so obedient and cheerful! Her husband adores her and is never cross at her. He must make a sufficient living, too, so they never go without.

We think about her, watch her and are amazed, but after a while of doing so we grow discouraged. “I can never be like her,” we say. “What is wrong with me to be lacking all of that in my life?” We compare. We grow frustrated and we may even begin to judge her. We may even go as far as deciding we do not like “little miss perfect”. Yes, jealousy is usually the root that begins to grow deep in this soil here.

But what if…just what if she was able to ask us if she could come off of the pedestal, please. After all, she did not place herself there, we did. What if she could tell us that she does not have it all together and though she does long to live 1 Corinthians 13 out in every area of her life, she will never perfect it this side of Heaven. She will not stop trying, but she grows discouraged too.

Read the full article at THIS LINK. Thank you, Tina!

One thought on “If I Could Only Be Like Her

  1. As a man, I can understand this. I admire women who would just admit that they’re not perfect, and have no need for us to put them on the silly pedestal, as though they really needs that. Be open and honest and truthful, that’s all I ask.

    (sighs)… this is a lovely article.


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