Don’t be the Bathsheba meaning don’t be a sexual temptation or a bad example of beauty for others.
I’ve been thinking and praying a lot lately about how we as women deal with beauty. Beauty is a battle in and of itself. Every woman longs deeply to have a beauty all her own and for it to be seen, admired, and appreciated. Unfortunately, the term beautiful has been greatly distorted over the years.
Now adays beautiful is confused and associated with other words with a little more spice to them, words like hot and sexy. But that’s a problem!! Hot and sexy inspire lust which often times leads to sin (see James 1:15 below).
In the words of Ethan: “There are two types of girls for most guys I’ve talked to: girls that are hot that you just want to have sex with, and girls that are cute, that you actually want to bewith.” Whenever Ethan told me “I always thought you were cute,” I was never particularly thrilled with this compliment, knowing that there are girls out there like Kim Kardashian and Olivia Wilde littering the cover of every magazine and advertisement. One day, I finally asked: “But do you think I’m hot? How could I possibly compete with all the other women out there that are considered the hottest women?” He told me I didn’t get it, and then he explained. It took me abount a half hour of talking to understand that cute > hot. By far. Cute is beauty, outer and inner combined, where inner beauty is the leading role and only enhances the outer beauty you already possess and that they were already attracted to.
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