Editor’s Note: Is courtship just coffee? Evidence that defining the terms and expectations is so very important. 

From Raising Real Men

“Hey, I’ve got some unexpected time free. Want to meet for coffee?” an adult young man texts a female friend.

“I’m not comfortable meeting guys like that. You need to talk to my father,” is the reply.

These two are on a different wavelength. Let’s peek into their heads for a moment. (No, we can’t read their thoughts, but this is what we’ve heard lots of them say privately…

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