[T]he current obsession with gay marriage is not a step towards a version of heterosexual monogamy transplanted into the heads of gay men, but a withdrawal towards safety and an unconscious awareness that so far nothing (decriminalization, sexual liberation and acceptance) had worked.

In the end, it’s all make-believe — a last-ditch effort to save a way of life that is intrinsically self-destructive.

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